Are you going to be criticized? Yes....It's how you handle it that makes the difference. Criticism only bothers those who value the opinion of others far more than they value their own. You are the superior one right?....So who gives a rats ass what others think.
Here are some classy and superior come backs to criticism..
-"I understand your opinion...but I don't agree..." Then ignore the criticism. Act as if it was never said....Don't acknowledge it anymore.
-"Thanks...I may think about that"....Shows them that you heard and will choose a time and a place to consider it, but you are not going to change.
The most important thing is not to fight criticism with criticism. Do not get upset..If you have been following lesson one and acting as if....than it will be easy...trust me.
Continue with lesson one and use these simple tools to fight criticism...Remember any one that thinks they are better than everyone else...usually is. Tell yourself you are better...in every situation. Brainwash yourself.
Even though society doesn't admit it...Superiority is how you become successful..The greatest leaders in the world have this personality trait....This is why they are where they are.
Tell yourself that you are the shit everyday...People want to hear what you say, they want to be around you.
It's why the jerk at the bar is going to get laid tonight...It is why the asshole at work is going to become your boss...It is why everyone copies the popular guy....You get my point?
It is not rocket science...It's easy. You need to brainwash yourself into this paradigm...If you have passive parents and they didn't do the brainwashing for you then you need to take on this responsibility!
Your only here for 75+ years if your lucky....and never to return....So fuck it be the fucking superior human being in every situation!
Next week we will discuss body language...
Friday, March 19, 2010
Friday, March 12, 2010
The First Lesson
This is your first lesson.
In order to put my success training to good use you need to start by doing one simple thing.
When you see the same actor in different movies is the character role always the same....No...Unless it is a sequel.
Isn't Matt Damon the Same person who starred in both Good Will Hunting and The Bourne Identity?...Yes.
The point I am trying to make here is that you can immediately be whatever character you want. Pick the most successful person you know. They can be old, young, male, or a female, it doesn't matter. It can even be a made up person in your mind.......You just need to start acting! Acting as if you already are this person....This will take some time to brainwash yourself.....(It takes roughly 13 weeks to change a young sailor’s mindset into that of a SEAL).
It also takes time especially if you are going to be your own trainer....The way you start this process is by creating false Position Power....The way I started this technique was, I woke up every morning and looked in the mirror and started pretending that I was the CEO of the company I worked for...Even though I was just one of 30 junior sales people. As soon as I did this I immediately felt a sense of purpose and power. It became easier to talk with people, I wasn't socially awkward by trying to fit in, or fearing that I did not make a good impression....Do you know why, because your subconscious doesn't know the difference...Only or conscious does...Believe me your conscious will try and persuade you to stop acting...It doesn't like change.
This is how you will change!….The most successful people in the world either had this technique done to them through parents who knew….or by figuring it out on their own by continuous practicing.
The secret to this process is that it eliminates the Fear of Failure....but only temporarily....That is why you need to constantly remind yourself of "who" you are. It is like a prescription from your Dr. You need to take it every four hours everyday (including weekends) for roughly 20 weeks.
Everyone you come in contact with will see this new character.....You may get a few looks or confused faces but just keep reminding yourself that you are acting......You may ask, what if I get confronted for doing this.......That is next weeks lesson....Stay Tuned.
In order to put my success training to good use you need to start by doing one simple thing.
When you see the same actor in different movies is the character role always the same....No...Unless it is a sequel.
Isn't Matt Damon the Same person who starred in both Good Will Hunting and The Bourne Identity?...Yes.
The point I am trying to make here is that you can immediately be whatever character you want. Pick the most successful person you know. They can be old, young, male, or a female, it doesn't matter. It can even be a made up person in your mind.......You just need to start acting! Acting as if you already are this person....This will take some time to brainwash yourself.....(It takes roughly 13 weeks to change a young sailor’s mindset into that of a SEAL).
It also takes time especially if you are going to be your own trainer....The way you start this process is by creating false Position Power....The way I started this technique was, I woke up every morning and looked in the mirror and started pretending that I was the CEO of the company I worked for...Even though I was just one of 30 junior sales people. As soon as I did this I immediately felt a sense of purpose and power. It became easier to talk with people, I wasn't socially awkward by trying to fit in, or fearing that I did not make a good impression....Do you know why, because your subconscious doesn't know the difference...Only or conscious does...Believe me your conscious will try and persuade you to stop acting...It doesn't like change.
This is how you will change!….The most successful people in the world either had this technique done to them through parents who knew….or by figuring it out on their own by continuous practicing.
The secret to this process is that it eliminates the Fear of Failure....but only temporarily....That is why you need to constantly remind yourself of "who" you are. It is like a prescription from your Dr. You need to take it every four hours everyday (including weekends) for roughly 20 weeks.
Everyone you come in contact with will see this new character.....You may get a few looks or confused faces but just keep reminding yourself that you are acting......You may ask, what if I get confronted for doing this.......That is next weeks lesson....Stay Tuned.
Tuesday, March 9, 2010
Introduction to the new you
You are about to learn the real "Secret" to success. Not some "Ask the universe for what you want" bullshit or "If I hang a picture of a Mercedes it will appear for me" garbage. I am talking about the real secret that every CEO, Real Estate Mogul, Stock Broker, Politician, Celebrity, High School Jock, motivational speaker and most of all every President in history knows.
Let me ask you this. Are you tired of trying the latest self help book just to realize that it is the exact same regurgitated bull that you spent your last hard earned $19.99 on?
Reading the Same positive affirmations like these....
"I love me."
"I am equal to everyone I meet."
"I have confidence because I won 4th place in an elementary track meet"
"Today is going to be a great day!"
Well I'll tell you this the people of power do not do this at all....Do you really think that the CEO of GE looks in the mirror and says the second affirmation listed above daily....He may tell the media this...because he knows it sells (by the way this is one of the lessons we will cover).
Are you sick of
Feeling inferior?
Having anxiety about meeting new people?
Feeling frustrated for not being able to say what you want?
Well I will teach you the proven methods to change this.....
Let this sink in....
I will be back with lesson one next week.
Let me ask you this. Are you tired of trying the latest self help book just to realize that it is the exact same regurgitated bull that you spent your last hard earned $19.99 on?
Reading the Same positive affirmations like these....
"I love me."
"I am equal to everyone I meet."
"I have confidence because I won 4th place in an elementary track meet"
"Today is going to be a great day!"
Well I'll tell you this the people of power do not do this at all....Do you really think that the CEO of GE looks in the mirror and says the second affirmation listed above daily....He may tell the media this...because he knows it sells (by the way this is one of the lessons we will cover).
Are you sick of
Feeling inferior?
Having anxiety about meeting new people?
Feeling frustrated for not being able to say what you want?
Well I will teach you the proven methods to change this.....
Let this sink in....
I will be back with lesson one next week.
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